Date: 2018-04-11 05:32
I don t like the pep-talk books because they imply social hierarchy and competition that you re supposedly going to excel at by feeling super special about yourself. Capitalist liberalist shit IMO.
What I haven’t yet mentioned is that Tom Pandolfo is 5’8 8798 .
I didn’t want to mention it for the same reason that Tom didn’t want to mention it in his profile: because it’s irrelevant to anything that makes him a good accountant, husband, or father. Yet his height defines him, since it has prevented otherwise interested women from being interested in him over the course of his entire life.
I don t think the Doc was ragging on women for having preferences he was ragging on women who were acting like assholes. The problem isn t liking tall guys, the problem is treating shorter guys like crap. You can turn someone down without laughing at or insulting them.
Your footer image reminded me of a wedding (nearly a decade ago, wow) where my friends could find cake toppers with interracial couples, same-sex couples, and age-divergent couples, but not one where the groom was shorter than the bride.
Well, I believe in apologies when I ve done something wrong, and I am unfortunately biased when I read your comments. I need to remember that and be more generous towards you for sure.
If you re still okay with the rephrasement of your argument by switching the gender to men and preferences to breast size and still feel that it s not shallow and asshole-ish then I see your point. But if aren t okay with it then I m calling you on your hypocrisy.
I have a suspicion you 8767 re a short man trying to pass for some tall man bad ass advice.
It 8767 s self haltingly adorable.
Anyway, how about let us women choose whoever the fuck we are attracted to instead of blaming them for being superficial shallow bitches? Poster above is right something just feel off with shorter men. Like they never really reach adulthood. From what I read shorter men usually stop their growth spur much earlier than tallerpeers so it 8767 d make sense to rather be attracted at traits that indicate more robust sexual/reproductive health.
Evan you are doing great things here, keep up the good work. These are just thoughts from someone who has had it rough in the dating world.
Yes, I would put the security and safety above looks, but you have to get to the point where you can have that. A lot of shorter men lack self confidence, or have an over abundance. But the same goes for women. If we can 8767 t get over those hang ups, then it can be hard to even get to where you can start to feel safe, secure, and protected.
I m short. I am confident and assertive and perfectly happy with myself, but I am short. I don t need to be tall to be powerful, impressive or worth taking seriously. Which is lucky, because I am not tall and have no particular wish or likelihood to be seen as tall, no matter how much presence I have.